THE UNBOUND tm
For women who are exhausted from over-functioning, over-giving and still not feeling safe, seen or met in a relationship.
A group mastermind to dissolve subconscious limitations, reclaim yourself and create healthy, conscious relationships
You Self-Abandon.
You Choose Unavailable Partners.
The Patterns Keep Repeating.
And You Still Can't Stop.
You want the feeling of warmth from being supported, considered, understood and loved by a partner without having to work so hard for it.
I hear you.
You've spent so much of your life believing you had to do more, give more, understand more, accommodate more and become more to finally receive the love you wanted.
But that was never the answer.
Join the mastermind where women dissolve who they had to become to feel loved and safe, and reclaim their authentic nature, so they can stop choosing unavailable partners and create healthy, conscious relationships instead.
I have helped 600+ clients transform their lives with the Rx4 method,
without endless therapy.
“Working with Quentin was phenomenal… I gained a new understanding of myself and immediately felt lighter from the very first session. He takes his time and really educates you on what is happening and how to move forward powerfully. Prior to working with him, my partner and I were on the verge of DIVORCE, and thanks to Quentin, we are still in the game, committed to healing, repairing, and moving forward with grace.”
MICHELLE
★★★★★ " I recommend that anyone invest in this work."
- Jenna
“I had never found someone who could give me the answers I needed, to break free from my patterns until I worked with Quentin.”
— Dalia
“I came to you because I believed I would never matter to a partner. I have now attracted a man who is open, clear, and direct about what he wants, and who takes the time to understand what matters to me. I have never experienced that before, and I’m 43. It really does exist.” — Rose
“I had a pattern of attracting partners with narcissistic tendencies. Intuitively I could feel something was off from the start, but I would stay anyway. Quentin opened that realm for me and we started to reverse what he called boundaries dissolution that I had inherited from my parents. It is like I have finally become visible to others” — Nolwenn
“It’s impossible for me to abandon myself in a relationship again after understanding why my ego kept choosing the partners it did. I couldn’t even see that prison until you helped me uncover it. I feel so empowered now.” — Jennifer
“I had tried so many different modalities and attachment coaching approaches to heal my anxious attachment. You helped me realise that my fear of being abandoned or left by a partner was actually a way for my ego to conceal the way I was taught to leave my authentic self behind. And since you gave me that specific strategy, my fear has reduced by 90%.”
- Alice
THE PATTERN
THE VOICE IN YOUR HEAD
You keep selecting the same type of men with dismissive avoidant, narcissistic, unavailable tendencies.
What’s wrong with them, what’s wrong with me?
You lost yourself with this ex, again.
I don't recognise myself.
You can't leave relationship dynamics that are not good for you.
Why can't I stop doing this?
You feel chemistry with someone only to discover that you have attracted another boy in a man's body.
Are all men the same?
You're tired of being the understanding one when you don't feel understood yourself.
I don’t feel seen.
Better communication does not work. You have tried!
The more I do, the more I need to do.
Some abusive relationships have broken your trust.
What if it happens again?
You were made the problem by men who were enmeshed and had no boundaries with women and their mothers.
Why am I the issue?
What if you could keep building the life you want without having to sacrifice so much energy & time with the wrong partner?
Hi, I’m Quentin -
I am a relationship consultant, breakthrough coach and mentor.
I have helped 600+ individual clients and couples dissolve deep-rooted limitations, break free from painful relationship patterns and create healthier, more conscious relationships.
If you have been asking yourself:
* How do I stop repeating toxic cycles and unhealthy relationship dynamics?
* How do I truly break free from the impact of the abuse I've experienced?
* How do I stop choosing emotionally unavailable partners?
* How do I create the deep, safe and connected relationship I truly want?
... and you're tired of spending another year trying to understand your patterns, doing more inner work and finding yourself in the same situations despite everything you've learned...
The Unbound™ Mastermind is for you.
Because understanding your patterns and dissolving what's keeping them in place are two very different things.
Relationships will reveal where you are still not free.
This work is about understanding what is keeping you stuck, recognising what you've internalised from past experiences, and dissolving the subconscious structures that keep you attached to unhealthy relationship dynamics.
... so your voice does not shrink in front of someone who only knows how to defend their ego.
You don't justify the immaturity of a partner who avoids conflict because it is "saturday night".
And you don't have to call your best friend to ask for clarity because of someone's inconsistency & manipulation.
"I feel so light, powerful and happy. A tank has been lifted off my shoulders. These WORDS you found have been chains paralysing my patterns decisions for YEARS" - IDA.
Either you are single, divorced or in a relationship, you do not "choose" any partners.
The subconscious prisons & survival strategies you haven't yet recognised profoundly influence who you feel drawn to, what you tolerate and how you experience relationships.
And until that changes, the pattern doesn’t just repeat. It becomes engrained.
I help you change that in the UNBOUND mastermind with my REVEAL, RELEASE, RECLAIM and RELATE method.
A mastermind for women, led by a man?
I grew up in a family of women who embodied various relational archetypes: People Pleaser, Devouring Mother, Controlling Parent, Caretaker, Rescuer, Fixer, Enabler, Hyper-independent, Over-functioning & Peacemaking
My own upbringing involved dysfunctional family systems, codependency, enmeshment, betrayal, abandonment, conflicts, childhood trauma, narcissistic abuse, humiliation, bullying and instability. I developed a strongly wounded feminine side, which came at the expense of my own masculine growth.
While these experiences were detrimental, they also gave me a unique opportunity to observe, understand, and investigate many of the conditionings, constraints, and relational patterns most women experience.
I had to recognise and break free from these relational constructs myself before helping others do the same.
“It is very different from the work I have done before in the way you uncover the prisons that are preventing whatever it is your highest self wants. Quentin has profound wisdom and is able to articulate what is going on in a way that makes sense. While a lot of heavy and deep work is happening, there is also relief and joy in the moments where you truly understand and are validated in that experience. Also, because the sessions are long and in-depth you really take the time beforehand with the questionnaire to learn and know what is going on so that time isn’t wasted during sessions with explaining and going over history. This allows for quick change and working through patterns and prisons quickly and efficiently, making it the most effective way I’ve learned and grown, by far.”
BRIANA
The work in this mastermind will crack your limitations open and allow you to experience deep, cathartic, somatic release.
You don't have to perform, prove, pretend and live inside a body that is loaded with pressure and resentment, anymore.
You stop repeating what you have finally understood, felt, resolved and transcended.
"I did not want a perfect partner, I just wanted the right one for me. Quentin was instrumental at finding what was making me unreachable, when I thought every men were unavailable" - Tayla
I don't tell or teach women how to be women and how to embody their feminine.
I help women dissolve what limits them subconsciously.
“This work changed my life in every way I can think of! I found the truth behind my deepest struggles which is in itself life altering. As you have stated, you cannot ‘unsee’ something once you see it and thus, I cannot hide from the truth anymore. It’s wonderful because the truth isn’t scary, it’s liberating and even humorous at times. Like it was really THAT that caused all of THIS? All masks do indeed drop and that really changes you. This work gave me the most healing in 6 sessions than from a decade of traditional work. I felt more healing in hearing mere sentences than countless years in therapy offices. I have never had someone read about my entire life and map all the pieces together and missing links and make sense of everything. I recommend this work because it shows you how beautiful life can truly be. Life beyond your prisons feels like a miracle and everyone deserves this.”
MORGAN
“Once you dissolve your attachment to the limited identity you've built to survive, you can finally become available for a healthy relationship.”
THE UNBOUND
A private mastermind for those who’ve already invested in themselves but still struggle to build a healthy relationship, break free from deep limitations + toxic cycles or choose a healthy partner.
This mastermind combines a deep process of removal (Rx4 method) with theoretical and practical coaching.
Women I've worked with got these results using this method, and you can too:
The revelation of the blind spots within your subconscious structure that kept you entangled in constant rumination, not feeling heard and selecting partners you feel you have to mother.
The dissolution of the 10 core emotional negative attachments that create sabotage, self abandonment or any relationship struggles.
The development of deep discernment so you can recognise love-bombing, DARVO, and manipulative tactics before falling for the charm of another person's "charisma".
The dissolution of your attachment style & self-sabotage so you no longer friendzone a healthy partner or run for the hills the moment you can genuinely build a connection that matters.
The release of the grip of the mother wound or father wound on your identity, choices, and relationships.
Having the ability to interrupt the feeling of disregulation in real time, rather than drafting another break up message, justifying their victim mentality because "their childhood was hard" or trying to better communicate with someone dedicated to make you the issue.
You will be able to date & choose partners based on genuine alignment, rather than mistaking familiarity for "the one" & chemistry for compatibility.
Staying grounded in conflict instead of collapsing, over-explaining, shutting down, or losing yourself in the dynamic.
You can shift the subconscious patterns shaping your relationships so you can build connections that are conscious, mutual, and growth-oriented.
You will reconnect with your authentic self, beneath the protective masks you have built that you thought would make you more loveable.
You will experience genuine freedom in your body, not just an intellectual understanding of why you have been stuck.
✕ This isn't for you if…
✕ You're more attached to being right about your patterns than discovering what lies beneath them.
✕ You want to understand your patterns intellectually without fully engaging in the process of changing them.
✕ You're not ready to challenge the story you've created about who you are.
Wisdom will say I am nothing
Love will say I am everything
And between the two my life passes
SRI NISARGADATTA MAHARAJ
… And in between, your life passes. But it doesn’t have to pass with the wrong relationships.
What’s Included with
The Unbound™ Mastermind
THE SESSIONS
REVEAL & RELEASE: 5 live group sessions on Zoom each month, where we trace real situations back to the pattern, back to the core prison underneath and dissolve its grip, so you can catch your pattern while it’s happening instead of after the damage is done, and change your behaviours.
RECLAIM: 1-1 work with each person, teaching, theory and practices so you can receive personal, tailored support and fast-track your evolution.
Every session is recorded, yours to keep, and available to rewatch as many times as you need, so you can maximise your integration process and create lasting breakthroughs.
DIRECT ACCESS
RELATE: Daily access to me between sessions via WhatsApp, so you can receive support while you are going through something challenging instead of waiting for the next session.
You recieve my feedback and coaching support with your triggers, patterns, and real-life moments as they happen.
You’re not alone in the hard parts, and the container holds you accountable.
THE COMMUNITY
A private WhatsApp group for daily integration (except Sundays).
Real-time support when old patterns start taking over.
Peer accountability and witnessing within a small group.
THE PRE-RECORDED MATERIALS
Over 4 hours of my pre-recorded training "Relationship fundamentals," that will entirely transform your view on relationships.
E-BOOK: How to Stop Selecting Unavailable Partners (100+ pages that will completely change the way you see dating and relating).
E-BOOK: The Wounded Ego.
A pre-work questionnaire to establish your starting point and fast-track your results when it’s time to work 1:1 with me.
THE CONTAINER
3-month commitment.
The version of you who can be in a healthy relationship has always been there. We just need to remove what’s in the way.
The sooner you start...
... the sooner you can begin dissolving those patterns in real time, with daily integration and support through the group.
Every day you wait is another opportunity for an old pattern to keep running the show.
Frequently Asked Questions
How is this different from therapy?
Therapy can help you understand your history, process certain experiences, and develop a level of emotional awareness. My work looks at the entire architecture of your mind and your experience, the conscious, unconscious (soul), subconscious (ego), body and nervous system, and how all of these interact.
We look at the original experiences, the meanings you gave them, the wounds that formed, the subconscious beliefs and programs that developed from them, the protective strategies you created, the emotional attachments, the parts of yourself that became exiled, and ultimately the behaviours and relationship patterns that continue to run your life. Because understanding where a pattern came from is not necessarily the same as being free from it.
My work is about identifying and dismantling what is actually keeping you from living as your fullest authentic expression.
Can I actually change my patterns in 3 months?
Yes.
The intention isn't simply to help you understand your patterns intellectually, but to dissolve the underlying structures that have been influencing your choices, emotional responses, protective strategies and relationships.
This is a intensive three-month commitment, deep individual work, ongoing support and the opportunity to create meaningful changes that you can continue integrating long after the mastermind ends.
The goal isn’t to spend years becoming better at managing the same pattern. The goal is to remove what is creating the pattern in the first place.
What if I’m the only one in the group who’s struggling?
You won’t be treated as if you have to keep up with everyone else. Everyone comes into this work with a different history, different patterns and different constraints.
You are not required to be at the same place as anyone else in order for this work to work for you.
And because I am working with the individual underneath the pattern, I can meet you where you are and help you work with what is actually happening for you.
Will you push me to date or get into a relationship?
No. The goal isn’t simply to get you into a relationship. The goal is for you to become someone who can consciously choose the relationship you actually want, rather than unconsciously recreating what is familiar. If you’re not ready to date, you don’t need to date. And if being single is currently the most authentic choice for you, that is something we can work with too.
What if I get triggered during the group and can’t handle it?
You don’t have to handle everything alone.
If something comes up during the group that you are struggling with, you can reach out to me 1-1 through WhatsApp and I will help you work through whatever you need to get through.
The point isn’t to force yourself through something. The point is to learn how to meet what comes up without continuing to be governed by it.
Is this only for people who want to date consciously?
No. This work is for single people, people already in relationships, people going through a breakup, people going through or recovering from divorce, and people healing from toxic relationship dynamics.
It’s about changing the patterns that negatively affect how you relate to yourself, others and life. Selecting a great partner comes first with you being great at being authentically you.
Can I catch up if I miss a session?
Yes. Every session is recorded and made available for you to rewatch, so you can catch up whenever you need to.
What if I’m further along than everyone else, or way behind?
Everyone comes with their own set of constraints. There is no universal timeline for this work. I meet people where they are and adapt to each person’s needs rather than expecting everyone to follow the exact same process at the exact same pace. You don’t need to be at a particular level of healing to be here.
What if I realise halfway through that this isn’t for me?
You can jump in and out after the first 3 months. I don’t want you staying because you feel trapped in a commitment. I want you staying because you are experiencing the value of the work and choosing to continue, because it does not only help you with your relationships, it helps you in your entire life.
Is this about healing the past or building the future?
Both. You cannot fully build a different future while the past is still unconsciously determining your choices. So we work on removing what is in the way of you becoming your fullest authentic expression, while also creating the capacity to meet a matching partner and build a healthy, conscious relationship. It’s about understanding what needs to be resolved so you can finally move forward differently.
How does the WhatsApp daily support actually integrate into my life?
You can use WhatsApp to ask me questions related to your relationships and what you’re experiencing between sessions. Something happens with someone you’re dating. You notice a pattern coming up. You don’t understand why you’re reacting the way you are. You’re unsure how to communicate something. You can bring it to me. This means the work isn’t confined to the hours we spend together in the group. You are able to bring the real-life situations where the patterns are actually happening into the work, while they’re happening.
The patterns are clear.
The cost is real.
This can stop.
You can be in a room with other women who get it, who, just like you, want more depth, more consciousness, freedom from their deepest limitations and healthy connections, doing the work alongside each other.
I am looking forward to helping you.
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